So, um...have you ever been in love with two different women, and they both really really wanted you and hated each other and you could only choose one even though you wanted to be with them both? One is really sweet and calm and elegant and I feel comfortable talking to her, our families have always been close. The other is charming and flirty and loves to flatter me, and even though I get nervous around her it's a good nervous. And I don't know who I like more! What should I do?